Is it really?

Having experienced sex myself, i feel that i can say that it's something that people do in order to take from someone but also to give. In any given scenario, someone always takes, and someone always gives. Even if it's taken or given unwillingly. What many people don't realize it seems is the emotion behind the action. Scorn or laugh if you must. Teen girls always have some kind of emotion that drives them to have sex. Whether it be passion for the person, sadness caused by that person, or even anger. (i'm probably missing a bunch too) Girls are trying to get something out of the experience, but a lot of them don't seem to recognize what it is, so they go in for the wrong reasons. Lonliness, feeling wanted, wanting to feel older or more feminine. millions of reasons. millions of wrong reasons. but what are the right reasons?